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Mommy Niri

Nirasha (aka Mommy Niri) is a "retired" software engineer and has given up the rat race to take care of her rugrats. Find her blogging at http://www.mommyniri.com
 
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There has been a lot of news about dolls of color lately.  Two that have probably been the biggest news busters have been the new Barbie black doll and the tween Dora doll.  There have been several black Barbie dolls out but the special thing about this latest edition is supposed to be the body attributes a little more accurate rather than older versions that just darkened the skin. While this definitely is a step in the right direction it seems like it is not enough. I am not a big fan of Barbie in general due to the whole body image debacle. I won’t go into how ludicrous it is but I feel pretty sad about the impact on the young female population. To get back to the Barbie doll, there is an uproar, and rightly so, about the naturalness of the straight hair on the dolls. Hair is one of those things that immediately make an impact on a person. I mean, how much does a simple haircut change on a person? You would have thought they would have given that some thought during design. I assume a lot of thought was given but maybe they did not want to scare with too much changes, lest the regular audience move away from Barbie.

My next beef is with the new Dora doll. I wrote about Dora tween doll a while ago when I heard about the changes and it caused an uproar. What I have not discussed though was the fact that Dora is one of the few role models, character and toy wise, that teach a girl to be something other than a fashionista or cheerleader. Not only is it rare to get a good role model but it is tougher to get one of color. Even in reality the inspiration for a female of color to emulate is not an easy find. Many of those of color that have the power to influence with their demeanor also end up trying to mainstream so badly that you can barely tell they are of color as they blend in.

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Happy birthday Gandhi!

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I loved a movie depicting Gandhi for all he stands for and have the utmost respect for Richard Attenborough. What galls me though is that in a population of a billion Indians he could not find one single Indian to play Gandhi.

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Mirror, mirror on the wall…

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What is this obsession with color we have? Those light skinned spend time and money with tanning and those with darker skins spare no expense rummaging through stores to tackle being fair.
Even our fairy tales are perpetuated with wanting to be fair. Remember Snow White? With the less -than-fair witch who was

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Affirmative action and me!

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When I landed my 1st job it was away from home. To help build the picture it is not the norm to move out of home,… ever, unless you marry and sometimes not even then. Most of everyone I knew went to college at home and continued to work without

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If you don’t mean to be racist, are you still racist?

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I hear it pretty often when I hear a statement I construe as being racist that it was not meant like that. People mention that if it was not meant to be taken in a certain way then it should not. Well it is like if I accidentally kicked your

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Propaganda! Don’t believe all you hear!

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To us living in South Africa having someone of color up there in the limelight was a sign of hope. There was always stories of mockery surrounding him but my dad always told us to be wary of propaganda.

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Speak English?

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She asked the regular questions about whether I would be able to “help in case of emergency” type questions that are part and parcel of sitting in an exit row. I nodded. She then asked if I spoke English. I nodded again.

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What’s in a name?

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Names and what they say about you have always been a hot topic. I never realized that one day I would be faced with making decisions regarding my name. When I arrived in the USA on a work permit as a Software Engineer the contracting company that brought me over

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